Consensual Non-Monogamy & Polyamorous relationships
Affirming Online Therapy for Couples, Throuples, and Polycules Across CA, FL, NV & VA
Helping people in diverse constructs heal and thrive in their relationships by empowering them to connect better, communicate, and understand their partner(s) and themselves…
You love your partner(s), there is no question about it.
Maybe you have been wanting to have a conversation with your partner about opening your relationship, and you’re not sure how to do that. Or maybe you just recently opened with the intention of sharing the love you have with others, because why keep it all to yourself? There are a lot of people who need love. In the excitement of your changing relational dynamics, we didn’t really know how to navigate this change, and now that it’s done, maybe things are not as exciting as you had anticipated. You’re getting upset, having loud disagreements, feeling jealous, or maybe feeling more filled with fear and anxiety that this will ruin your relationship. You thought this was supposed to be easier, yet it made things harder.
Maybe you’ve questioned whether you’re right for your partner(s), and we know that you don’t want that to be true; you know that you’re having a hard time expressing these concerns and needs to your partner(s), unsure how they will perceive it. You don’t want to go into (or continue) your relationship(s) like this. Something has to change- in yourself, and in your relationship(s) as a whole, if they are going to be successful.
As a Polyamorous therapist myself, I know all these struggles all too well. I am here to provide tailored guidance and support, helping you navigate the complexities of open relationships and transforming challenges into opportunities for deeper connection, understanding, and a harmonious dynamic.
You’re ready to:
Understand how these things are happening so you can actually change them
Feel heard and understood in your relationship(s)
Navigate past hurts, and traumas that impact your connection with your partner(s)
Gain insight into jealousy, to prevent it from ruining your relationship(s)
Verbalize your needs with confidence.
Reach Compersion for your partner(s) without sacrificing your own needs.
Have support in navigating the complexities of your relationship dynamic(s)
Create a safe space for functional dialogue to support you and your partner(s)
Equip your relationship for future success.
Lasting change can happen with Online Therapy.
How it works:
Therapy with people who want to open their relationships or are in Consensual Non-Monogamous, or Polyamorous relationships starts with analyzing the relational foundations. We will dive deep into your past and gain insight into your attachments and relational development. We will look at the way you manage conflict and interactions that contribute to your problems and work on building a cohesive relational structure. No matter if you are a Couple, Throuple, Polycule, Mono-poly, etc., The more people in your relational structure, the more past experiences, traumas, fears, personalities, and tensions you will have to manage… and it wouldn’t hurt to have some help navigating these interactions.
We'll talk about the intention of opening the relationship, explore your rules and boundaries, and implement systems to support areas of your relationship that may need it. Together, we will process jealousy, work on verbalizing your needs as they arise, and discuss instances of compersion. Whether you’re initially opening, have been open for a while, or have multiple partners, it’s never too late to strengthen your connection with yourself and your partner(s).
My goal is that you leave each session with new insights and actions that you can apply to your day-to-day life: a new perspective, something to think about, a new approach to try, or another tool that allows you to move differently in your life that will lead to lasting change.
Plus, you’ll be doing this work with a Polyamorous Therapist who understands where you are coming from.